A while back the news of the hacking of the Ashley Madison website sent many marriages into a spin. For those of you who don’t know, AM is an online adultery website. Their advert runs “life is short, have an affair”. They describe that they are facilitating consenting adults to cheat on their partners in a safe environment. In a radio interview I heard a few years ago, the founder of AM rationalized that the people who would sign up are people who would have affairs anyway